The purpose of this site is to talk to you in the manner in which I wish someone had spoken to me many years ago when I first discovered my…
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Your husband has been a sex addict for some time. Whatever event occurred that made you aware of his addiction, it is only one in a long stream of…
You may be married to a man who doesn’t think there is anything wrong with how he behaves. In my discussions with sex addicts, I often ask what their advice…
You can’t delve very far into the world of sex addiction without learning of “Anon” groups. “Anon” groups are designed to support the spouses and family of sex addicts and…
I am not a fan of the co-addiction/codependency model. Our grief, our anxiety, and our fear are perfectly normal responses to the trauma we’ve been through. However, there are some great…
I write this blog as though readers have just found out about their husbands sexual addictions, and as though they’ve never been to a support group. Neither of these may be the case. …
There should be a word for it, the intuition we have that our husband has acted out, or is about to act out. I’ve been waiting for the feeling to…
Many wives and partners resent 12-step programs because all the help and comfort is directed toward the addict. He is the one who has caused all manner of harm,…